The nearest cousin to frustration is confusion. So don’t you worry we are going deal with the two at the same time together. What is frustration of being frustrated? you have had the tall rich and handsome guy now what, you have had this beautiful lady that has it all nice and tied (stole this from Americans, so you know what I am talking about) now what, you have had the career that is making you travelling the world and meeting new people now what, you have the best car now what, you have got a good house now what…
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Most of case people have many works need to do in life. And the bad thing here is people don’t accomplish all of them, they only waste time and efforts on something they choose to start but don’t accomplish them. So staying focused on goals really need and challenge with people.
Each person in this world doesn’t need have so massive tasks need to do. That because people trying to cheat themselves with belief that if they don’t all of that things then they can have better life.
When we are facing with the world change very fast to grow we must improve and fit with change and we also need keep staying focused on goals. Might you feel very hard but there are something you can do in this case still help you focus.
When someone is addicted to something, they can feel the need to go the other extreme and to cut it out all together. And while this can seem like the right idea, it might not have the desired effect.
Another approach would be to cut down on the amount that one has of something; this will allow one to enjoy what they were doing before, but in moderation. However, this can all depend on what one was addicted to in the first place; as it may be something that they need to cut out altogether.
When one is able to cut down, they won’t need to go from one extreme to the other and this will allow them to accept both sides. There will be moments when they can have what they want and moments when they can’t.
It was a question I asked people in my social surroundings, just to learn how they understood this term.
I was surprised at most of the answers:
“I do not want to give up; I am a fighter.”
“Surrender is a method of giving up.”
“I do not know how or why I need to surrender.”
My first impression was that some people don’t understand the real meaning of surrender. I don’t blame them. Just look at Merriam-Webster’sdefinition of surrender: “to agree to stop fighting, hiding, resisting, etc., because you know that you will not win or succeed to someone else.”
I don’t know why this term has a mostly negative meaning.