Detachment From Choice – The Secret of Flexibility

By Enoch Tan in Life Purpose on July 18th, 2008 / 3 Comments

Enlightenment is about seeing through the illusions of life and knowing what reality really is. When you are enlightened, you can have everything you want. Because you’ll know the truth about what everything is, and what does it really mean to have something. It is an irony of the world that the people who seek material things and desire to have them before thinking about enlightenment, tend to attain neither, but those that acquire enlightenment first are the ones who do. The desireless attain all their desires.

Being desireless is not about having no desire, but it is about having no attachment to desire. Attachment is the cause of all suffering. Suffering is burning emotional energy on the uncontrollable. The more you suffer, the more suffering you attract. Letting go of all attachments is the way to end all suffering. When you are attached, you are in a state of wanting or lacking. When you are detached, you are in a state of being desireless. Enlightenment is about knowing why detachment gets you your desire.

Physical reality is an illusion created by consciousness to rediscover itself. It is an illusion that you do not have what you already want, because you already have all that you desire in spiritual reality. Physical reality is a place for you to manifest anything that you are resonating with from spiritual reality. When you are attached, you are resonating with the spiritual untruth that you do not have your desire. When you are detached, you are resonating with the spiritual truth that you already have your desire.

You free yourself by being emotionally detached from choices. Many people fail to get what they want because they do not free themselves to have it. You trap yourself when you are attached to choices. You think that it has to work a particular way rather than allowing yourself to go another way. Detachment from choices is what gives you true freedom of choice. You are able to choose again in every moment and are free to make a different choice if you will. Detachment from choice is secret of flexibility.

Stock market trading success comes to those who trade in an enlightened way. The masses are emotionally attached to choices and that is why they lose money when they hold on to failing stocks instead of selling them. They also fail to sell when the stock has reached a substantial level of growth because they are attached to seeing it grow forever. The elite traders are not attached to choices but they buy and sell freely in a way that makes them more money than losing it. To be unattached is to be free.

Having the relationships you want also comes from being enlightened. What a woman really wants is an enlightened man. He is a man who realizes his true being as a free spirit. He is free to express himself to her and he is free from being affected by her. Being detached is the attractive quality that makes a man uncontrollable by a lady. Being undefined by external factors is what makes him self assured. He is capable of loving fearlessly and loving without attachment. Enlightened loving is loving like a god.

Those who are enlightened get what they want by benefiting from movement and changes, whether positive or negative. It no longer matters to them whether the stock goes up or down. They have strategies to make money either way. It no longer matters to them whether which person likes or don’t like them, or when their partner is happy or unhappy with them. They simply allow themselves to enjoy all the happiness and positive energy they experience from whoever, whenever and however it comes.

Enlightened manifestation of your desires is about getting the essence of what you want and not being attached to the form or channel. Those who are attached to form or channel will suffer more and more, and have less and less self esteem. Whereas those who are not attached will be able to enjoy more and more of the things they like in life, and have more and more self esteem. Those who have more self esteem are more capable of having the success and relationships they want compared to the others.

Freedom from attachment is also the reason why the rich get richer and the happy get happier, while the poor get poorer and the unhappy get unhappier. Having comes from being. When you are being detached, you are resonating with having. When you are being attached, you are resonating with not having. That is why it has always been said that you will finally be able to have what you want when you no longer want it. It does not mean you do not want it, but you are no longer in a state of wanting it.

All that we want is peace and bliss. We think that when we have all the material things we want, we will have peace and bliss. But that is because we don’t really know what peace and bliss are. It is peace and bliss that bring us everything else in life. Peace is total transcendence. Bliss is an untouchable happiness. When we transcend all illusions of the material world, we are in a state of peace where we can manifest anything we want. When we have no attachments, we have a happiness that cannot go.

Enlightenment is the key to everything. The unenlightened may ask what enlightenment has got to do with making the money or getting the girl that you want. The answer is everything. When you are enlightened, you realize that it is not about getting this or that, but it is all about knowing what reality is, and who you really are. Then from that space of knowingness and beingness, you are free to create whatever you wish. You’re free to play with illusions without being trapped by any, as it is all just a game.

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Enoch Tan aims to help people achieve greater awareness in living and experiencing life, to evolve human consciousness to higher levels and to revolutionize the way we understand the mind and reality, because that’s what governs every area of life and destiny. When you learn Secret Knowledge of The Universe and Answers to Life Greatest Mysteries, you can have Wealth, Power, Freedom and Anything you want! Visit the site: Secrets of Mind and Reality

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3 Responses to “Detachment From Choice – The Secret of Flexibility”

  1. D.Bheemeswar Says:

    Dear Mr Enoch Tan,

    This is what the most of the Indian literature is about. Unless one gets detached from the worldly aspects there shall not be flexibilty and purpose of life. This comes only after total maturity of a person, what I meant is it has nothing to do with the age of the person. It is some thing to do with the practice of the self control over the materialistic and worldly aspects of one’s life. We call it as Panchendriya gnanam, and control of all the senses. Such perswon is known as enlightened. Such person knows the meaning of the life as well purpose of life from all the angles. Each and every body has five organs like eyes, ears, mind and animal instict like making love etc. all these are to contributers towards ones ego as well arrogance and main distractors, which may contribute to non fixing of the brain on any topic/target/goal.

    For all the lifes on this earth living happily, in harmony and in serenity are the main purposes and make the life to continue on this earth. Since we are humans having brain and a voice, if we live with some principles and as humans we can achieve any thing on this earth, with out distracting from the main goals. All other modern techniques are only tools to understand the life to some extent. But the same advancements also rises lot of deparity among the people across the world. That’ what we are facing now as terrorism in some places and slavism in some other parts of the world. This has created more famines and total imbalances in ecology and environment, just because of somebody wanted to be more comfortable and stick to the chairs of commanding the world, even without understanding the basic rules of life as humans. Only proper education and good exposure to culture and ethics may be putting the people on the track of life.

  2. Hugh Says:

    I totally agree… it is through total detachment that you can achieve everything in life, be it money, relationships, possessions. Funny how it seems that the less you want it, the more it gravitates to you.

    I will mention Enoch Tan’s article in my regular Thursday night webinars.


  3. Sally Says:

    Mr Enoch, thank you so much for the article you published as above. You were mentioning that if we want less of the material things then more will be given to us, but what if we are in real and lots of debts from our previous ignorance? No doubt, worry will be there as our jobs do not provide enough to pay for.

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