I’m certain you’ve been there before. No matter how hard you try all your efforts seem to be in vain. Don’t despair, for some of life’s greatest victories have come to those who have persisted despite external conditions. There is no finite, linear progression toward the realisation of one’s goals. Success is achieved through a series of setbacks, dead ends and smaller victories.
The journey toward your goals is clothed in the person you become, more than the goal that you set out to achieve. Successful leaders will advise you that it was the journey not the fulfilment of the goal which is most satisfying. You might recall Thomas Edison overcame repeated setbacks and failures to discover the light bulb. It took him no less than 1,000 attempts to invent what is regarded as history’s greatest inventions.
Success Is Closer Than You Think
Now you might wince exclaiming “I don’t have the wherewithal to persist through 1,000 failures” to realise success. But what if his invention required 1,000 attempts before success was imminent? You see, sometimes the process dictates the path to success. If your goal is manageable in scale, your failure may not be as prominent as Thomas Edison’s.
On the other hand if your goal is to impact humanity on a global scale, the process of pursuing the goal will almost certainly meet with unexpected detours and setbacks. The scale of the goal will determine the course one takes and subsequently the actions required in order to fulfil that goal.
Consider this, what if your endeavour required time and patience and you knew this in advance; would you still persist? Oftentimes we are discouraged from pursuing our goal due to many unknown factors. Inevitably we give up due to the fear of the unknown, rather than embrace it as a challenge. It is the fear of the road ahead which debilitates us the most, since uncertainty indicates that success may be unattainable.
My advice for overcoming the fear of failure is embraced by the willingness to let go of mastering time andenjoy the process instead. If you love what you do and do what you love, then it stands to reason that theprocess become your focus. You have no doubt heard the adage ‘think with the end in mind.’ By orientating yourself to the fulfillment of the goal affords you the opportunity to engineer the steps required in reverse.
Any well-known authors and motivational experts propose that when we think about our goal with the end in mind, it allows us to create a pathway toward the achievement of that victory. Many people give up on their goal for a variety of reasons. My belief is that the goal may not imbued with passion and purpose. You must foster an indestructible passion and conviction toward the realisation of your goal. Failure is not to be contemplated.
Ponder this for a moment. Which is greater, the joy of success or the misery of defeat? Are you motivated to succeed or are you motivated to avoid pain? Psychologists call this the pain-pleasure principle. The avoidance of pain may be likened to mice administered electric shock treatment within a lab environment. They are discouraged from attaining the reward since the pain overwhelms the pleasure of the reward.
In order to realise your goal, an attitude of consistent persistence must be accompanied by an undeniable belief to succeed. Consistent dedication is paramount, given your daily habits lead toward success or failure. Consistency matched with passion, enthusiasm and desire ultimately lead toward the path of success.
Before you consider giving up, rest or take a mini break if you must. Sometimes we need a break from the pursuit of our goal in order to gain clarity and perspective. Albert Einstein said, “You can’t solve a problem with the same level of thinking that created it in the first instance.” Therefore viewing your goal with a new mind allows you to see possible opportunities that may not have been apparent previously.
One can never predict how long it takes to achieve success. If you pursue your goal with an undeniable belief and conviction than success will ultimately greet you when the time is right, then the process becomes far more enjoyable than the victory.
It will look like this: Never Give Up, Great Things Take Time