The Quantum Method for Manifesting Your Dreams Wed, 17 Mar 2010 13:33:32 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9 hourly 1 http://www.dreammanifesto.com/how-core-beliefs-become-learning-behaviors.html/comment-page-1#comment-12705 Jeffrey Baer Sat, 04 Aug 2007 23:29:55 +0000 http://www.dreammanifesto.com/how-core-beliefs-become-learning-behaviors.html#comment-12705 I have been an underachiever since I graduated from high school, where I was at the top of my "game" in athletics, academics, popularity, female companionship, etc. I have a controlling and critical father and I allowed him to over ride my decision for college, and instead, went to one that he felt would give me an "ivy league" type of experience. I have really never recovered from that experience, as I flunked out of the "ivy league" experience and have had many major failure cycles since. I did get a college degree in psychology, but never went on to post grad work and have gotten jobs that have come to me, rather than me going out and getting a career. It bothers me to see high school peers, who were almost invisible, being very successful. I am 59 and still feel that "someday" I will achieve the lofty goals I once used to entertain. I am a fairly accomplished musician, yet I feel I still need to be more accomplished before I start performing in public again. I was born left-handed, but my father kept switching things to my right hand till I "became" right-handed. Does this mess up the right/left brain identification and create indecision regarding self analysis of talents, skills, and abilities? I have been an underachiever since I graduated from high school, where I was at the top of my “game” in athletics, academics, popularity, female companionship, etc. I have a controlling and critical father and I allowed him to over ride my decision for college, and instead, went to one that he felt would give me an “ivy league” type of experience. I have really never recovered from that experience, as I flunked out of the “ivy league” experience and have had many major failure cycles since. I did get a college degree in psychology, but never went on to post grad work and have gotten jobs that have come to me, rather than me going out and getting a career. It bothers me to see high school peers, who were almost invisible, being very successful. I am 59 and still feel that “someday” I will achieve the lofty goals I once used to entertain. I am a fairly accomplished musician, yet I feel I still need to be more accomplished before I start performing in public again. I was born left-handed, but my father kept switching things to my right hand till I “became” right-handed. Does this mess up the right/left brain identification and create indecision regarding self analysis of talents, skills, and abilities?

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