1. How do you think?, this question some times may lead to errors of which may cause inferiority or superirity complexes, better is what do you think? Always think positive, if some negatives are there forget and relax for recouping the energy restart the process afresh.
2. How do you see yourself? This is immaterial becuase we are living in a world where materialistic aspects are given more predominance, but if one feels that he/she is part of this world as a human that shall be great.
3. How do others see you? this is also totally irrelavant from the considerations of the above, it all depends how much others are educated about human values nothing ti do with their degrees or positions in the society.

When we have brain that can accomedate entire world and univers there is no need of a note book, it is all wonderfull experience that counts, the time shall be immemorial.

The moment one realizes that he/she is part and parcel of the human race, it is understood that they realized them selves. This self realization is more important in everybody’s life.
I think that shall change the entire senario on this world and shall reduce all the disputes and extremism.

I’d like to add a note of caution to the 3rd point. It is effective to use other people’s eyes for SELF assessment — but be careful not to put your assessment thoroughly on their point of view. You are trying to judge your effectiveness. For example, you may feel that you’re confident person, but asking around those around you you realize that your posture give the opposite impression. You use this to notice a piece of you that’s not in alignment with your values — not so that you appear confident to others, but so that you yourself feel assured that how you are presenting yourself is in line with your beliefs. But if you go make the corrections so that you can look confident in other people’s eyes — well, you may be compromising your self-esteem by basing it on what others think of you.

It’s a fine line, but one to watch out.

ari